To be a Gentleman

Why is good to be a gentleman? After a certain period in life, every men thinks about himself how he introduce himself to the people around him. To become a gentleman is not a change that you can make it in a day, it's take time to achieve that acertain personal level. But why it's good, it's because everything in life has its own rules and parameters, which doesn't mean that you are bound to something that you're not decide to value. If you will become a strong figure and you will represent someone who can be trusted and people will egknowledge you.The most common reason to become a gentleman it's a wrong reason. That is to impress ladies and people think they are a gentleman, if they are dressed nice and and act like they are having a gold mine. First rule is that you are gentleman for yourself. Then you evolve, to the next level.

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Loyalty

The last value in my qoute (The man exists to be an example of stability, trust, respect, honor and loyalty) is loyalty. It's the most important value of a gentleman. It's not just about being loyal to your girlfriend or wife, is about to be loyal to yourself. Loyalty is a value, which holds everything together. The most common mistake in today society is worrying to much about people opinion of us. The consequence is, that we will do things which will change the opinion and people could lose dignity, respect and manny other things through that kind of bahavior.  Standing up for yourself is tha most vital in today society. When we stand up for ourselves, we push our values in front and we protect in what we believe. Sometimes the cost of protection can be high and we can lose our jobs or friends, but,  there is no point of living if you live for others pepole values.

Every gentleman is loyal to the people that he loves an respect. But what it means to be loyal to others? Most people will say that loyalty is not cheaiting your partner or talking behind their back, and I will agree with it. But the most important part of being loyal to your loved ones, is that you protect them when they are not around.

A true Gentleman always protect loved ones. 

Honor

Honor is the most difficult value to explain. Wait ... is it a value at all ? When we are born, we are in the purest state of our lifes. It's when our honor starts to develop. As I said in my earlier post, honor is more of a personal nature kind of value. Respect can be earned, but honor can't. It's created by ourselves through our lifepath.

Honor can only be protected, and when it's lost , it's lost forever. In my opinion honor should be the most important value of a true gentleman. Many people forget that all values can be easily lost nowadays. So, hold on to your values no matter what happens. Show that you are a true gentelman in any situation.

Honor is mostly described in an army or in any other act of conflict, when two sides protect their own interest, protecting their honor. Honor is a package of our values, eather they are good or bad.

Imagine honor like a water ballon; Balloon is made of our values and water in it is our honor. When we break one of our life values, it's the same as if pop a water balloon. The water leaks out, as our honor disappeares.

If we want to retain our lost honor, just do the opposit, of what you did, when you lost it.

Honor is what keeps us alive and when it's gone, we're gone. 

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Respect

Respect is the most delicate value of a gentleman. It can take years to earn it and you can lose it in a blink of an eye.

There is confusion between honor and respect. As I said erlier, respect must be earnd, when honor is on more pesonal level. It can't be earned, because you have your values that you follow in your life and if you brake them you lose it, and it's the hardest thing to get it back. About honor in my next post.

In today society respect is mostly earned by fear. When we fear something we will automatically respact that thing or a person. It's wrong but that's how our body and brain works. You can fight it or not show it , but subconsciously you cant't deny it.

To earn respect you have to be brave, do and achive things that others couldn't. Be nice and hard on your self and other people. By that I mean no violence, of course you just help them to progres. In short, to gain respect you have to work hard in a business or personal way.

But as hard as you work to gain respect from people around you, you can lose it in a blink of on eye. So, show respect to others, suport them, but most importantly be a human being, be a gentleman

Trust

Most people understand trust as, telling some kind of secret to a good friend or someone else close to them. It's very important that we have someone in our life, that we can entrust him with our secret and personal issues. For a person to be trustworhy, he has to be reliable and honest. If a person is honest, he will automatically gain trust and respect from people around him.

A gentleman must be reliable and honest. As i said in the beginning, he isn't the one who only cares for himself, but for other people to. Trust is one of the most important values of the human being. If a man break trust bond or betray a secret, he automatically loses respect and honor. Gantleman can simply not exists without those values . Getting trust and respect back is nearly impossible or very difficult.

If you want to be a true gentleman, take entrusted information serious and respect people who trust you, because they will trust and respect you back. 

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