Honor

Honor is the most difficult value to explain. Wait ... is it a value at all ? When we are born, we are in the purest state of our lifes. It's when our honor starts to develop. As I said in my earlier post, honor is more of a personal nature kind of value. Respect can be earned, but honor can't. It's created by ourselves through our lifepath.

Honor can only be protected, and when it's lost , it's lost forever. In my opinion honor should be the most important value of a true gentleman. Many people forget that all values can be easily lost nowadays. So, hold on to your values no matter what happens. Show that you are a true gentelman in any situation.

Honor is mostly described in an army or in any other act of conflict, when two sides protect their own interest, protecting their honor. Honor is a package of our values, eather they are good or bad.

Imagine honor like a water ballon; Balloon is made of our values and water in it is our honor. When we break one of our life values, it's the same as if pop a water balloon. The water leaks out, as our honor disappeares.

If we want to retain our lost honor, just do the opposit, of what you did, when you lost it.

Honor is what keeps us alive and when it's gone, we're gone. 

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Respect

Respect is the most delicate value of a gentleman. It can take years to earn it and you can lose it in a blink of an eye.

There is confusion between honor and respect. As I said erlier, respect must be earnd, when honor is on more pesonal level. It can't be earned, because you have your values that you follow in your life and if you brake them you lose it, and it's the hardest thing to get it back. About honor in my next post.

In today society respect is mostly earned by fear. When we fear something we will automatically respact that thing or a person. It's wrong but that's how our body and brain works. You can fight it or not show it , but subconsciously you cant't deny it.

To earn respect you have to be brave, do and achive things that others couldn't. Be nice and hard on your self and other people. By that I mean no violence, of course you just help them to progres. In short, to gain respect you have to work hard in a business or personal way.

But as hard as you work to gain respect from people around you, you can lose it in a blink of on eye. So, show respect to others, suport them, but most importantly be a human being, be a gentleman

Trust

Most people understand trust as, telling some kind of secret to a good friend or someone else close to them. It's very important that we have someone in our life, that we can entrust him with our secret and personal issues. For a person to be trustworhy, he has to be reliable and honest. If a person is honest, he will automatically gain trust and respect from people around him.

A gentleman must be reliable and honest. As i said in the beginning, he isn't the one who only cares for himself, but for other people to. Trust is one of the most important values of the human being. If a man break trust bond or betray a secret, he automatically loses respect and honor. Gantleman can simply not exists without those values . Getting trust and respect back is nearly impossible or very difficult.

If you want to be a true gentleman, take entrusted information serious and respect people who trust you, because they will trust and respect you back. 

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Stability

My foundation for this blog is my quote: The man exists to be an example of stability, trust , respect, honor an loyalty.

Being stable can have a lot of meanings, but i want to focus on path of mans life. What I ment by being stable, is not that a man must be rich or have a big house in wich is he stationary. Every person on this planet has a goal, a path , a dream, on wich he or she works on. So by being stable mean that in our case a man must have a goal ih his life that he want to achive. But that's just a part of that meaning. To be stable and to have stability in life means that you have positive values which you follow, especially if you are a gentleman. I thik tahat is very importat that a true gantleman never disciminate, because he is a rolmodel to younger ganeration.

The Gentleman

Who actually is a gentleman? Answering this question, more than one sentence would be needed- it's a very complex definition of behavior. So, the most common visualization of the word gentleman- someone who is dressed nice and behaves in certain distinguish way. Clothes actually don’t have any role for a gentleman. Of course, if you are dressed nice, you attract more attention and automatically have a higher rate of success, but this is completely irrelevant. Dressing nice in today’s society isn’t a problem anymore. The main problem we face, is in our behavior and mindset of our population. First I will focus just on male population, because I think that we’re close to lose our way.

The Hustler's Mind

The man exists to be an example of stability, trust, respect, honor and loyalty. Those elements slowly disappear in present society of SWAG, immature men and boys running around from woman to women like wild animals. Those kind of ‘’men’’ only have one thing in mind and that is sex. The name Hustler represents a true man in the olden days. I talk about 30s ,40s and early 50's, time of suits, dresses… time, when there was more respect for each other, especially for ladies. Hustler is someone who takes care for his family and people around him. I'm not saying that gentlemen don't exist anymore, but I’m sure that, this culture of behavior is slowly dying. Whose fault is it? Where is the problem? I will try to describe a true gentleman, The  real ''Man'', a true Hustler.